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    Doing Science To It: Masturbation


    2010 - 06.26

    We all do it.  It’s a part of the daily routine for some of us.  And usually, it includes at least some small bit of fantasy – our ability to put the real world aside for a moment and live in a world of our own creation.  Apparently, this is something entirely unique to the human race.

    Perhaps this is why we are the only species that actually masturbates to completion intentionally.  Jesse Bering talks about our masturbation habits, how they set us apart, and the effect that porn may have on our creativity in his article on ScientificAmerican.com.  He talks about how our unique brains give us the ability to conjure up images that arouse and enthrall us, encouraging us to pleasure ourselves.  He also discusses how we are the only species known to masturbate to intentional climax, and how our sexual activity actually increases our fantasy creation and leads us to masturbate more often.

    It’s a fascinating read, and it’s definitely gotten my mind working.  Perhaps I’ll put the porn aside for a while, and let the movies in my mind take over….

    Revel


    2010 - 06.26

    If there is anything in the world that deserves reverence and worship, it is the miracle of the human body.  It’s an incredibly complex machine, elegant in its design and awesome in its presentation.  Each body is different, from the curves and angles to the basic chemical blueprint – a marvel and a universe on its own.

    I love taking time to learn a new lover’s body, discovering that little mark that he’s forgotten about, that tickle even she didn’t know she had;  to encourage my lover to feel worshiped, adored, loved; to explore the unique scent that only he can create, and how it changes; to compare the taste of the inner wrist to the curve of hip to the back of the knee; to revel in the intimate and singular gift with which I have been presented.

    Exploring a new body is an adventure.  There are sensitive twitches, taste variations, color shifts, scars to commemorate trials…an entirely new world to map and memorize.  We all bear the marks of our lives, and our lovers use them to learn our histories in an intimate, unique way.  The scraped knee that never quite healed, the surgery scar, the watchband tan line, the unexpected twitch when a certain spot is touched..the little details that build a person to completion are there, waiting to be discovered and inspire us to share our stories.

    Instant


    2010 - 06.22

    In the midst of industrial Cleveland, there is a pile of gravel. It’s a large pile, fenced in and deserted, a looming blob of slate gray – save for the single, large, pink flowering plant that’s burst from the side. It’s a shock of life in the dank, monochrome world around it, and a small beacon of hope that brightens my day. A blink later it’s gone, but the instant glance was all I needed.